Neutralize Normal Themes

Normal Themes in Divorce
  • anger
  • rage
  • upset
  • distress
  • loyalty binds
  • children and parents manipulate each other

When a theme presents itself in one of these forms, stop.

Take these steps:

  • Get centered, look to the Light within.
  • See yourself surrounded with Love Energy.
  • Look at what just happened in your physical reality.
  • Ask, "What will free this situation?"
  • Observe. The scene that shows the resolution plays out in the Light.
  • Check to see if you feel as sense of joy and calm. If you feel something other than joy and calm, ask again until a scene appears that resolves the matter.
  • Write a brief review of what you saw or perceived and how it made you feel.
  • Focus throughout the day, every day on the scene that shows the matter resolved.

For each problem discussed here, remedies exist to help parents and children adjust to the changes. The thing is to get through the pain of the divorce and move on with their lives. Our workbooks for Moms and for Dads

  • ask the important questions that point to problems

  • leave it up to parents to decide what to do

  • point out self-defeating reactions

  • give ways to spot problems and solutions

  • give ways to get past the pain

  • show ways to create resolution dramas

As with our workbooks for children and for teenagers, Love Energy and Light are the prevailing resources we apply.


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