When children see high conflict in their parents' divorce, they
- experience greater difficulty in sorting out their feelings
- feel "caught" between the parents
- experience deep depression
- experience high anxiety
- take part in deviant behavior
- feel guilty, angry and alone
Understand this: children can sense the vibrations of the anger even
when the parents pretend everything is okay while with them.
For each problem discussed here, remedies exist to
help parents and children adjust to the changes. The thing is
to get through the pain of the divorce and move on with their lives.
Our workbooks for Moms and for Dads
ask the important questions that point to problems
leave it up to parents to decide what to do
point out self-defeating reactions
give ways to spot problems and solutions
give ways to get past the pain
show ways to create resolution dramas
As with our workbooks for children and for teenagers,
Love Energy and Light are the prevailing resources we apply.